Blog #4

Today, I've been thinking a lot about culture and how much I'm comparing Hungarian culture to my British roots and the culture I was raised. I have had many fascinating conversations with students discussing cultural heritage and how living in and travelling to another country can be so eye-opening. As a proud Brit, I can't wait to share with you some insights into what makes my homeland so uniquely charming, but also my new Hungary home too.

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Thinking about my upbringing in the UK, I feel extremely privileged. From metropolis cities to quaint villages, every corner has its own story to tell and interesting people to meet. As a child, I fondly remember weekends spent playing with friends in the park getting soaking wet from the non-stop rain (a weekly sometimes daily occurrence) or enjoying fish and chips by the seaside with my parents and our lovely cocker spaniel Penny, again always complaining about the weather. Family values run deep in British culture, and gatherings around the dinner table are cherished moments filled with laughter and warmth.

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Within this reflection, I can both see similarities and differences to Hungarian culture. The weather, as you've guessed, is quite a big difference. Family values, on the other hand, is something I feel very at home with as I live in the same village as my Hungarian partner and his family. There is this unconditional support and closeness that is familiar to me with and it is wonderful. The more I chat with Hungarians I learn more about this close-knit family network. It's fantastic to hear. In a way, it makes me feel even more appreciative of these two cultures that are mine.

 

Now, let's talk about the schooling system. Having chance to work in both systems, the differences are interesting. Education is highly valued in the UK, with a strong emphasis on academic excellence. From primary school to university, students are encouraged to think critically and pursue their passions. Hungarian school systems of course do the same, but I feel a different subtle style of teaching. It is hard to explain but it feels more flexible and relaxed (although this does vary from school to school). One big adjustment I have noticed is the emphasis on curricular. In Hungary, sports, music, languages and more, are highly encouraged with some children doing more than one after-school club. The UK encourages this too, but there is less emphasis or pressure in my opinion. I think the former is much better. Extra-curricular activities shape individuals in so many ways.

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Festivals and traditions! One of the things that truly defines British culture is our love for festivities. Whether it's Bonfire Night or the timeless tradition of afternoon tea, there's always something to celebrate and schedule in the diary. And let's not forget about the iconic events like Wimbledon and the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, which attract visitors from all over the world. The Brits know how to throw a party and host an event. I've not had enough time here to explore more Hungarian traditions and festivals, but what I have learnt is that by law they can only have firework displays twice a year (for public or personal use!). For all the dogs out there, this rule should be applied globally.

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One student asked me: "what symbols represent the UK?". Several symbols spring to mind, both good and bad. On the positive side, there's the enduring spirit of resilience, epitomised by well-known landmarks like the Tower of London and the majestic landscapes of the Lake District. On a more personal level, it's the politeness of the people - the symbolic queueing and "Hi, how are you?" on the bus. There's not as much of this in Hungary. It's important to acknowledge the cultural challenges faced too, such as social inequality in the UK and the uncertainties of Brexit. These have become symbols in recent years. 

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As a business hub, the UK has long been a global leader in innovation and entrepreneurship. From the bustling financial district of London to the tech hubs of Manchester and Edinburgh, opportunities abound for ambitious professionals. Living in MediaCity last year, I was in awe of the media industry and its opportunities for graduates in the UK. The British work ethic, combined with a culture of creativity and collaboration, makes it an exciting place to build a career and live.

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Comparing the UK to Hungary and other European countries is like contrasting two sides of the same coin. While Hungary boasts its own rich history and vibrant culture, the UK offers diversity and cosmopolitan flair. Each culture has its own unique charm and allure! I will never pick a favourite, they're uniquely independent of each other. 

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In three words, I would describe the UK as: Traditional (heritage, events and holidays), unpredictable (in many ways, examples being the weather and its people) and Welcoming with its diversity and opportunities (even though Brexit does make it more challenging).

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So there you have it. A glimpse into the world of my culture and the thoughts passing my mind as I approach almost six months here in Hungary.

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Take some time to think about your culture! It's an important factor making us who we are today.

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Alice